Support loading stage configs from additional directories

**This is an epic commit message. TL;DR - add a `file_in_load_path?`
method to determine if a file is in the Capistrano load_paths, and
change the multistage extension to use `file_in_load_path?` instead of
`File.exists?` when loading stage configs.**

I am working on a private Capistrano gem to consolidate our deploys into
one project. We are deploying to EC2 and use tags on the instances to
determine where to deploy each application to. Therefore the Capistrano
configuration for all of our applications is almost identical with the
only difference being the application name, and things that can be
derived from the application name. I want to be able to use the
Capistrano multistage extension to configure our different environments.
While testing this I discovered that I can not load the stage configs
from within my gem.

I tried the following config:

```ruby
set :stage_dir, 'stages/aws'
set :stages, %w(production staging)
set :default_stage, 'staging'
```

This config would not load the proper configs because stages/aws was not
found by the `File.exists?` call on
[multistage.rb#18](https://github.com/capistrano/capistrano/blob/master/lib/capistrano/ext/multistage.rb#L18)

Then I tried this config:

```ruby
set :stage_dir, File.join(File.dirname(__FILE__), 'stages', 'aws')
set :stages, %w(production staging)
set :default_stage, 'staging'
```

The multistage gem found the file in this example, but failed due to the
path not being in the Capistrano load_path. I tried adding the
`File.dirname(__FILE__)` to the load_path, but that did not work because
I still had to set
`:stage_dir` to `File.join(File.dirname(__FILE__), 'stages', 'aws')`
in order for load to be called.

To fix this I added a method to loading.rb to scan the load_paths for
the file requested, and updated the multistage extension to use the new
method.

lib/capistrano/configuration/loading.rb

@@ -163,6 +163,14 @@ module Capistrano
         end
       end
 
+      def file_in_load_path?(file)
+        begin
+          !!find_file_in_load_path(file)
+        rescue LoadError
+          false
+        end
+      end
+
       private
 
         # Load a recipe from the named file. If +name+ is given, the file will

lib/capistrano/ext/multistage.rb

@@ -15,7 +15,9 @@ Capistrano::Configuration.instance.load do
     desc "Set the target stage to `#{name}'."
     task(name) do
       set :stage, name.to_sym
-      load "#{location}/#{stage}" if File.exist?(File.join(location, "#{stage}.rb"))
+
+      file = "#{location}/#{stage}"
+      load file if file_in_load_path?(file)
     end
   end
 

test/configuration/loading_test.rb

@@ -129,4 +129,20 @@ class ConfigurationLoadingTest < Test::Unit::TestCase
     assert_equal :custom, @config.ping
     assert_equal :custom, config2.ping
   end
+
+  def test_file_in_load_path_returns_true_when_file_is_in_load_path
+    File.stubs(:file?).returns(false)
+    File.stubs(:file?).with("custom/path/for/file.rb").returns(true)
+
+    @config.load_paths << "custom/path/for"
+    assert_equal true, @config.file_in_load_path?("file")
+  end
+
+  def test_file_in_load_path_returns_false_when_file_is_not_in_load_path
+    File.stubs(:file?).returns(false)
+    File.stubs(:file?).with("custom/path/for/file.rb").returns(false)
+
+    @config.load_paths << "custom/path/for"
+    assert_equal false, @config.file_in_load_path?("file")
+  end
 end