There are a few changes:
* Callers can specify if they want recursive behaviour or not
* All file listings to tar are sent on stdin, to handle long lists better
* We can pass in a list of filenames which will be created as empty
files in the tarball
This is exactly what we want for the creation of layer tarballs given
a container fs, a set of files to add and a set of whiteout files to create.
As per FIXME, CmdStream could have deadlocked if a command printed
enough on stderr. This commit fixes that, but still keeps all of
the stderr output in memory.
