Problem
---
Prior to this commit an inversed association would always return false
for `stale_target?`. This could cause problems when updating ids. For
example, assuming that the `Post#comments` association has an inverse to
the `Comment#post` association:
```rb
comment = post.comments.first
comment.update!(post_id: some_other_post_id)
comment.post should now return the post with some_other_post_id, but
since it was inversed it doesn't go stale and the test fails
refute_equal post, comment.post
```
This commit adds a test to catch this example, as well as a test for
counter caches (we already test that this counter cache behavior works
when `inverse_of` is not set, but when `inverse_of` was set we'd
increment and decrement the counter on the same target, effectively a
no-op).
Solution
---
This commit updates the `stale_target?` method so it no longer checks
whether the association is inversed. That is enough to get the two new
tests passing.
The `@inversed` check was originally added in
https://github.com/rails/rails/pull/9499, but the test from that PR
still passes when we remove `@inversed` because of
https://github.com/rails/rails/pull/31214. Rather than tracking
`@inversed`, we set the inverse when autosaving the has one association,
updating the `@stale_state` in the process.
Removing `@inversed` broke some other tests, however:
- test_belongs_to_with_touch_option_on_destroy_with_destroyed_parent
- test_touch_later_an_association_dont_autosave_parent
- test_counter_caches_are_updated_in_memory_when_the_default_value_is_nil
- test_counters_are_updated_both_in_memory_and_in_the_database_on_create
All of these followed the same pattern of building a record, setting an
inverse to the new record, and then saving. For example:
```rb
invoice = Invoice.create!(line_items: [line_item])
```
First Rails builds the invoice. Then it sets that new invoice as the
inverse for the `line_item`s `#invoice` association (i.e. so
`line_item.invoice` is the same object as `invoice`). Setting the
inverse also involves updating `@stale_state`, but since it's a new
invoice that will be `nil`. Then everything gets saved, at which point
the `nil` `@stale_state` no longer matches `stale_state`.
Rather than relying on `@inversed` to fix this, instead this commit
takes a similar approach to https://github.com/rails/rails/pull/31214
(setting the inverse when autosaving has_one associations) and sets the
inverse when autosaving has_many associations.